Departures, Arrivals and Sailing through the Storm
“We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give.”
― Winston Churchill
Firstly I open with the announcement of the departure of our own Debbie Williams who has moved onto pastures new.
As well as Debbie, our longstanding Director of Operations, Emma Howarth, has also departed for her next adventure.
I am sure that you will join me in wishing both Emma and Debbie well, and they will be missed by all.
As I settle into this new role, and grab the wheel to steer us into a chapter, I am minded that I write this blog a few days before Remembrance Day, and this year especially, we not only remember those that we have lost in battle, but those that we have also lost in other ways.
During my first week here at MitE I have also wrote a blog for the Chaplains Corner which is part of Parklife at Birchwood Business Park (Warrington). I therefore copy my comments from that entry:
“2022 has been a year of ups and downs, when you consider the state of our government, the cost of living and energy crisis, and the strengthening woes caused by the invasion of Ukraine. This year was supposed to be the year that we “returned to normal”, which seems to be the case in most areas, however, how can we return to normality when the status quo changes every day?
This Remembrance Day, we may not only spend time in silence remembering those we have loved and lost, but we may find that our thoughts and emotions surround and encompass us and sometimes overwhelm us, even if only momentarily.
I think back over the past 3 years, and consider how much life has changed. As I remember and mourn those who I have lost personally, I also mourn due to the fact that our everyday lives have changed. In my opinion, it is during these times of contemplation that I realise that we have all been affected these past 3 years, and there is some solace in this shared experience.
All is not gloom and sadness, our chaplains remain at the forefront of our mind. Providing a safe and welcoming space for all, providing words of comfort, and of faith if requested. Our chaplains remain a constant presence and a reminder that we are all in this together. Whether you need to get something off your chest, or if you just need someone to listen, to let you know that you are not alone, then our chaplains are here for you.
It only seems apt then, that as I write during Remembrance Week, I am reminded of the great Sir Winston Churchil quote “To each there comes in their lifetime a special moment when they are figuratively tapped on the shoulder and offered the chance to do a very special thing, unique to them and fitted to their talents.”
I think this quote describes our chaplains better than I ever could in my own words. During these uncertain times, receiving the compassion and kindness of our chaplains enable us to feel whole and valued, makes us feel positive, and enables us to respond to others with the same kindness and compassion.
It’s not always easy to feel compassion when we are overwhelmed with worry, sadness etc but kindness costs nothing and if we hold onto the way that a small act of kindness makes us feel it helps us to be more aware of others and their need to receive the same. It also helps to overcome some of our preoccupation with our own situation whatever that may be.
During this Remembrance Week, I therefore ask that during our moments of contemplation, as we remember those we have loved and lost, we also remember those who are still with us. I ask that we remember those who still need us.”
Taking my above comments into consideration I must applaud our Volunteer Co-Ordinators, and our volunteer chaplains as they themselves deal with the pressures of every day of life, whilst also giving up their time in order to help and guide others during these unprecedented times. They have been ever present in St Helens, Liverpool and Warrington providing support to businesses, market stall holders, sole traders, shop owners and the shoppers themselves. They have been steadfast in their support, being the constant guiding hand during these turbulent few years.
As I settle into this role, I am minded that I am led by you, the volunteer chaplains and co-ordinators, our trustees and my own faith. I am excited for what is to come, and hope to share our progress and new projects.
“Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass, it’s about learning how to dance in the rain.” Vivian Greene
To continue with the nautical theme, I leave you with one final analogy. We may all be in the same storm, but we are not all in the same boat. Whatever life throws at us, we are not alone. Do not be afraid for speaking to someone, it shows more strength to ask for help than to not.
Whether you have faith or not, you all remain in my thoughts, and my wishes go out to you all
Laura Hutcheon
Executive Director MitE
If you would like to request contact with our chaplains in your area then please email admin@mitechaplaincy.com or info@mitechaplaincy.com to request a call-back, and we will place you in contact with a local chaplain.